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IN MEMORY OF FR. BENITIUS (BEN) BREVOORT, OFMCAP
Ex General Assistant OFS and YOUFRA
03/04/1938 - 01/17/2017
Fr. Ben, delivered his soul to his Creator on the 17th of January. He suffered lung cancer, which was diagnosed a few months ago. He had not communicated his illness to anyone, except his brothers of the province and blood relatives. He lived with it with the same serenity that marked his life.
Fr. Ben served as General Spiritual Assistant to the Secular Franciscan Order and Franciscan Youth from the Elective General Chapter of October 1990, held in Fatima, to the Elective General Chapter of November 2002 in Rome. His appointment was a God given gift for all, for which we thank the Minister General OFMCap., Br. Flavio Roberto Carraro. His predecessor was Fr. Jaime Zudaire, OFMCap.
He began his task at a special and delicate moment of transition for our Order, the passage of the service of Minister General Manuela Mattioli to Emanuela De Nunzio. That is to say, two persons (Manuela and Fr. Jaime) left their positions during which time they had developed a fundamental role for the International Fraternity of the OFS, as you all know well. And a new phase began, which would certainly be different and this created uncertainty for so many brothers and sisters.
But Fr. Ben's manner was essential in order to smooth some of the rough edges during the first stages of the new Presidency Council of CIOFS, and things went smoothly. The Conference of General Assistants also lived their collegial responsibility for spiritual assistance to the whole Order and to the YouFra in the spirit of communion.
Allow me to share with you all that Fr. Ben was for me – an anecdote. Thus we can thank and praise the Lord, the origin and giver of all good, for his "being."
He was an example of a religious who loved and lived his own vocation passionately, both as a Christian and a Franciscan. And he had a special sensitivity and affection for the Secular Franciscan Order; and if I were to tell you that his affection was almost more for YouFra, many young people would confirm what I say.
He showed us continually, by his example and simplicity, how he lived true poverty that might seem shocking, but which was natural to his conviction. We have enjoyed his spirit of brotherhood, and of freedom without preconceived barriers; of his generous availability, even if he was falling from exhaustion; of his wisdom and depth; of his gift of the languages he learned, not without effort, but with love, to be able to communicate with all and serve all ... And so many things that each of us who have known him will keep in our hearts.
If you had seen how much he worked with Emanuela De Nunzio and myself during the revision of the General Constitutions, approved “ad experimentum” by the Holy See in 1990, and the collection of proposals from the National Councils, in order to present a selection of options for consideration and voting at the General Chapter...
I believe that for all it has been a true grace from God and a beautiful (opportunity) to live and work with him during his service to the OFS and Franciscan Youth, to the laity and to the spiritual assistants.
An anecdote: At the beginning of my service and his, he came to Spain to perfect his Spanish and when he arrived, the convent was closed and the friars apparently did not hear him. Even the euro did not exist and he did not have the local currency. He asked for help from a passing gentleman, who offered him some money to call me and waited in case he needed anything more. I told him to come to my home in a taxi. I had to convince him. While he was on his way, I prepared something to eat that he accepted with joy because it was already quite late. It was very cold; it was January, too, and snow was falling. As he always wore sandals, his feet were wet and icy. Then I realized that he had torn socks and I told him so. He answered, “Don’t worry when I get to the convent I will wash them and then I sew them again.” I told him to take them off and give them to me, that one thing was poverty and another misery. I saw how many times he had sewn them already. I offered him Juan's wool socks, my husband, and happily they fit well. Pleased, he put them on and also discovered that we had a source of electric heat under the table, which is called brazier here. It comforted him and from that first day, while he was in Madrid, after his classes and after he did his work as a Spiritual Assistant, he came home to that warm little corner which brought great joy to my family. His excuse was to warm his feet, but the real reason was to offer a little company to my mother because my father had recently died.
Let us unite in prayer for our brother, Fr. Ben, and praise the Lord for all the good that he has offered us and our Order through him. We send our deepest condolences and our immense gratitude to the Minister General of the Capuchin brothers, Br. Mauro Jöhri and his Province of Indonesia.
Encarnación del Pozo, OFS
(L to R: Lilian-Rita Akudolu, Michael E. Edem, Chinyere Ndeche, Genesis Ngwainbi (Delegate), Asiegbu Anna Azoamaka, Br. Anthony Essien, Obibuzor Jude Uche(National Minister)).
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The National Fraternity of the Secular Franciscan Order of Kenya held their national elective Chapter. The elections were as follows: as National Minister our brother Patrick Macharia and as International Councillor and National Secretary our sister Jacinta Kingori. May God bless you and continue to brighten your way.
Ordo Franciscanus Saecularis
FAMILY COMMISSION Silvia Diana - OFS
CONCLUSIONS OF THE SYNOD OF THE FAMILY
PART II - Chapter 1
The Family in God’s Plan, the Family in Salvation History
We continue with the reflections on the conclusions of the Synod of the Family and the Apostolic Exhortation Amoris Laetitia (AL) and we see how the family is and always was part of God's plan.
Jesus, who reconciled all things in himself, restored marriage and the family to their original form (cf. Mt 10:1-12). Marriage and the family have been redeemed by Christ (cf. Eph 5:21-32) and restored in the image of the Holy Trinity, the mystery from which all true love flows. The spousal covenant, originating in creation and revealed in the history of salvation, takes on its full meaning in Christ and his Church. Through his Church, Christ bestows on marriage and the family the grace necessary to bear witness to the love of God and to live the life of communion. "The Gospel of the family spans the history of the world, from the creation of man and woman in the image and likeness of God (cf. Gen 1:26-27), to the fulfilment of the mystery of the covenant in Christ at the end of time with the marriage of the Lamb (cf. Rev 19:9)”.(AL 63)
The family is a school of love and a stable family is the building block of society that allows persons to flourish as human beings.
Willed by God in the very act of creation, marriage and the family are interiorly ordained to fulfillment in Christ and have need of His graces in order to be healed from the wounds of sin and restored to their "beginning", that is, to full understanding and the full realization of God's plan. (FC 3)
The Synod Fathers noted that Jesus, “in speaking of God’s original plan for man and woman, reaffirmed the indissoluble union between them, even stating that ‘it was for your hardness of heart that Moses allowed you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so’ (Mt 19:8). The indissolubility of marriage – ‘what God has joined together, let no man put asunder’ (Mt 19:6) – should not be viewed as a ‘yoke’ imposed on humanity, but as a ‘gift’ granted to those who are joined in marriage… God’s indulgent love always accompanies our human journey; through grace, it heals and transforms hardened hearts, leading them back to the beginning through the way of the cross. The Gospels clearly present the example of Jesus who… proclaimed the meaning of marriage as the fullness of revelation that restores God’s original plan (cf. Mt 19:3)”.(AL62)
[...]The wedding takes place in the community of life and love and the family participates in the work of evangelization. The bride and groom, thus becoming Christ’s disciples, are accompanied by him on the way to Emmaus; they recognize him in the breaking of bread; and they return to Jerusalem enlightened by his resurrection (cf. Lk 24:13-43) (n 36).
Because of the divine pedagogy, according to which the plan of creation is fulfilled through successive stages in the order of redemption, we need to understand the Sacrament of Matrimony as it was in the beginning, based on the order of creation. From this perspective, we understand the salvific action of God, even in the Christian life. Because everything was done through Christ and for him (cf. Col 1:16). The incorporation of the believer into the Church through Baptism is completed in the other Sacraments of Christian Initiation. In the domestic Church, which is his family, the believer starts that “dynamic process, one which advances gradually with the progressive integration of the gifts of God” (FC, 9), by an ongoing conversion to the love that saves us from sin and gives fullness of life. (n 37)
The Icon of the Trinity in the Family
Scripture and Tradition give us access to a knowledge of the Trinity which is revealed in the features of a family. The family is the image of God who “in his deepest mystery is not all by himself, but a family, since he has in himself fatherhood, sonship and the essence of the family, which is love” (John Paul II, Homily at Parafox Major Seminary, Puebla de Los Angeles (Mexico), 28 January 1979). God is a communion of persons. At Christ’s Baptism, the voice of the Father called Jesus his beloved Son, and, in this love, we come to recognize the Holy Spirit (cf. Mk 1:10-11). Jesus, who has reconciled all things in himself and has redeemed us from sin, not only returned marriage and the family to their original form, but has also raised marriage to the sacramental sign of his love for the Church (cf. Mt 19:1-12; Mk 10:1-12; Eph 5:21-32). In the human family, gathered by Christ, the “image and likeness” of the Holy Trinity (cf. Gen 1:26) is now visible, a mystery from which flows all true love. Through the Church, marriage and the family receive the grace of the Holy Spirit from Christ so as to bear witness to the Gospel of God's love until the fulfilment of the Covenant on the Last Day, at the Wedding Feast of the Lamb (cf. Rev 19:9; John Paul II, Catechesis on Human Love). The covenant of love and fidelity, lived by the Holy Family of Nazareth, illuminates the principle which gives form to every household, and enables it better to face the vicissitudes of life and history. On this basis, every family, despite its weaknesses, can become a light in the darkness of the world. “Here each of us understands the meaning of family life, its harmony of love, its simplicity and austere beauty, its sacred and inviolable character; may it teach us how sweet and irreplaceable is its training, how fundamental and incomparable its role in the social order” (Paul VI, Discourse at Nazareth, 5 January 1964). (n 38)
The Family in Sacred Scripture - Through the fruitfulness of their love, man and woman continue the work of creation and collaborate with the Creator in salvation history through successive geneologies (Gen 1:28; 2: 4; 9:1,7; 10; 17:2,16; 25:11; 28:3; 35:9,11; 47:27; 48:3,4). The reality of marriage in its exemplary form is outlined in the book of Genesis, to which Jesus also refers in his idea of married love. Man feels incomplete, because he lacks “a helper fit for him”, who “stands before him” (Gen 2:18-20) in an equal dialogue. The woman participates, therefore, in the same reality of the man, represented symbolically by the rib, or by the same flesh, as proclaimed in the song of the man’s love: “This at last is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh” (Gen 2:23). They thus become “one flesh” (Gen 2:24). This foundational reality of the marital experience is exalted in the expression of one belonging to the other in the profession of love, pronounced by the woman in the Song of Songs. The formula is similar to that of the covenant between God and his People (cf. Lev 26:12): “My beloved is mine and I am his,... I am my beloved's and my beloved is mine” (Cant 2:16; 6:3). (n 39)
The words of eternal life, given by Jesus to his disciples, include his teaching on marriage and the family. In them, we can recognize three basic stages in God's plan. Firstly, there is the family of origin, when God, the Creator, instituted the primordial marriage between Adam and Eve, as the solid foundation of the family..... Subsequently, in its historical form in the tradition of Israel, this union, wounded by sin, underwent several variations: ..... Lastly, the reconciliation of the world took place with the coming of the Saviour, not only restoring the original divine plan but leading the history of God's People to a new fulfilment. Above all, the indissolubility of marriage (Mk 10:2-9) is not meant to be a burden but a gift to those who are united in marriage. (n 40)
“The example of Jesus is a paradigm for the Church… He began his public ministry with the miracle at the wedding feast of Cana (cf. Jn 2:1-11). He shared in everyday moments of friendship with the family of Lazarus and his sisters (cf. Lk 10:38) and with the family of Peter (cf. Mk 8:14). He sympathized with grieving parents and restored their children to life (cf. Mk 5:41; Lk 7:14-15). In this way he demonstrated the true meaning of mercy, which entails the restoration of the covenant (cf. John Paul II, Dives in Misericordia, 4). This is clear from his conversations with the Samaritan woman (cf. Jn 1:4-30) and with the woman found in adultery (cf. Jn 8:1-11), where the consciousness of sin is awakened by an encounter with Jesus’ gratuitous love”. (AL 64)
The incarnation of the Word in a human family, in Nazareth, by its very newness changed the history of the world. We need to enter into the mystery of Jesus’ birth, into that “yes” given by Mary to the message of the angel, when the Word was conceived in her womb, as well as the “yes” of Joseph, who gave a name to Jesus and watched over Mary. We need to contemplate the joy of the shepherds before the manger, the adoration of the Magi and the flight into Egypt, in which Jesus shares his people’s experience of exile, persecution and humiliation. We need to contemplate the religious expectation of Zechariah and his joy at the birth of John the Baptist, the fulfilment of the promise made known to Simeon and Anna in the Temple and the marvel of the teachers of the Law who listened to the wisdom of the child Jesus. We then need to peer into those thirty long years when Jesus earned his keep by the work of his hands, reciting the traditional prayers and expressions of his people’s faith and coming to know that ancestral faith until he made it bear fruit in the mystery of the Kingdom. This is the mystery of Christmas and the secret of Nazareth, exuding the beauty of family life! (AL 65)
Jesus and the Family “The covenant of love and fidelity lived by the Holy Family of Nazareth illuminates the principle which gives shape to every family, and enables it better to face the vicissitudes of life and history. On this basis, every family, despite its weaknesses, can become a light in the darkness of the world. ‘Nazareth teaches us the meaning of family life, its loving communion, its simple and austere beauty, its sacred and inviolable character. May it teach how sweet and irreplaceable is its training, how fundamental and incomparable its role in the social order’ (Paul VI, Address in Nazareth, 5 January 1964)”.(AL 66)
QUESTIONS FOR REFLECTION
1. How do you understand the role of marriage and the family in salvation history?
2. How do you see families being the icon of the Trinity?
3. Discuss "Motherhood" and "Fatherhood".
4. How can we offer to the world the meaning and values of marriage and the family?
We finish our encounter praying together: THE PRAYER OF THE HOLY FAMILY.
The National Fraternity of the Secular Franciscan Order of Chad held their national elective Chapter. The elections were as follows: as National Minister and International Councillor our brother Ange-Gabriel Soulasingar. May God bless you and continue to brighten your way.
Letter: Children praying for peace
Aleppo, 27 November 2016
First Sunday of Advent
To all the friars of the Order of Friars Minor
to the Poor Clares,
to the sisters to the brothers of the Secular Franciscan Order,
and to all women and men of good will
“See that you do not despise one of these little ones, for I say to you that their angels in heaven always look upon the face of my heavenly Father” (Matthew 18: 10).
Dear Brothers and Sisters,
May the Lord give you peace!
For a long time, as Friars Minor, we have been concerned about the situation that our brothers are experiencing together with the Christians and the entire population of Syria. Not long ago, we called on the international community to intensify its efforts to stop the war and the suffering of the civilian population and to make every effort to achieve peace.
Now, at the beginning of Advent, a time in which the Lord Jesus invites us to insistently watch and pray, we want to propose to all our communities the “Children praying for peace” initiative. It began as an idea from the “Aid to the Church in Need” project, and we wish to join it as the Order of Friars Minor, and to relaunch it on an international level on a monthly basis. This initiative comes from the awareness that the King of the Universe, the King of Peace, is the true source of all peace. Our Parish of St. Francis in Aleppo, which has been strongly affected by the tragedy of war and which has been tenaciously anchored to its hope for peace, has already joined the initiative. From Aleppo, we are now sending out our invitation to the whole world.
Starting in Advent 2016, we wish to join this initiative as the Order of Friars Minor and we want to encourage all of the communities, parishes and schools entrusted to our pastoral care and to all of the organizations close to us [to join in the initiative]; and we also encourage them to spread the word to other ecclesiastical and religious communities in the areas in which the Friars Minor as live and operate. We believe that the Lord hears the cry of the “little ones” and that their prayer their will become an opportunity for reflection and conversion for those who are “big.”
We are asking each community to dedicate their children's mass, or the mass most frequented by children, on the first Sunday of every month, to prayer for peace, according to what is locally possible. The same thing can be done in a celebration during the Oratory or by involving the schools, thus, in this way giving an ecumenical and interreligious spirit to the initiative.
If a community does not have a children's liturgy or if it does not have a ministry for Oratories or a school, it can make the gesture during the communal Praises or Vespers, or on an occasion created especially for this initiative.
Here are some practical suggestions so as to unify the form of the celebration, taking from the example of how it is done in Aleppo: after the initial greeting and the introduction of the celebration by the priest, some children will process in with a lighted candle, which will be placed near the altar, in a visible place, while all sing, or while they recite the “simple prayer” for peace.
In addition to this, different intentions from the Prayer of the Faithful will be dedicated to peace in people's hearts, peace for the families and peace in Aleppo and all around the world. The songs should also be dedicated to the theme of peace.
If the prayer is carried out outside of the Eucharistic celebration, it can always be adapted to the celebration, maintaining the symbol of the candle lighting, along with the simple prayer and songs for peace (remembering to always explain to the children that this prayer is in communion with all of the children of the world for peace in Syria, especially in Aleppo and for peace in the world).
Simple prayer for peace
Lord, make me an instrument of your peace:
where there is hatred, let me sow love;
where there is injury, pardon;
where there is discord, union;
where there is doubt, faith;
where there is error, Truth;
where there is despair, hope;
where there is sadness, joy;
where there is darkness, light.
O Divine Master, grant That I may not so much seek
to be consoled as to console,
to be understood as to understand,
to be loved as to love.
For it is in giving That We receive,
it is in pardoning That we are pardoned,
and it is in dying That we are born to Eternal Life.
We ask all those who take heed to our proposal, to report it on to our Facebook page: bambiniinpreghieraperlapace.
God bless every effort for peace and may he listen to the cry and the prayer of His children.
Fr. Michael A. Perry OFM
Fr. Francesco Patton OFM
Custos of the Holy Land